What If You're Creating the Exact Problems You're Trying to Fix?
You're yelling more than you want to.
Setting boundaries that crumble by bedtime.
Threatening consequences you don't follow through on.
Reacting to every crisis like it's the first time... even though it's the tenth time this week.
And deep down, you know: the way you're handling things isn't working.
In fact, it might be making everything worse.
Your anxiety is feeding their anxiety. Your inconsistency is creating their chaos. Your exhaustion is fueling their defiance.
It's the terrifying thought that crosses your mind when things explode again:
"What if I'm the problem?"
The Pattern You Can't Break
You know exactly how today will go:
Someone will push your buttons. You'll snap. You'll feel terrible. You'll promise yourself you'll do better tomorrow.
Tomorrow comes. Same cycle. Different day.
And with every repeat, the fear grows louder:
What if this is permanent? What if they remember me like this? What if I'm teaching them all the wrong things?
You're watching patterns form in real-time - the ones they'll carry into adulthood, the ones they'll tell their therapist about someday - and you don't know how to stop them.
Because here's the brutal truth nobody prepared you for:
Love isn't enough. Good intentions aren't enough. Trying harder isn't enough.
You need something you don't have. Something you were never taught.
You need to know HOW.
The Gap Between the Mom You Are and the Mom You Want to Be
There's the mom you are at your worst:
Reacting instead of responding
Saying things you immediately regret
Feeling out of control in your own home
Wondering who this stressed-out person even is
And there's the mom you dream of being:
Calm in the chaos
Clear and consistent
Connected to your kids
Confident in your decisions
The distance between those two versions of you?
That's not a character flaw.
That's a skills gap.
And skills can be learned.
Introducing:
The Family Room Membership Community
The monthly gathering place where overwhelmed moms master the proven frameworks that transform chaotic homes into thriving families.
This isn't another parenting book you'll start and never finish. This isn't a course you'll buy and never watch. This isn't generic advice that doesn't fit your actual life.
The Family Room is your weekly training ground where you learn the specific skills, from a faith-based perspective, that create lasting change - with expert guidance, practical tools, and a community of moms who actually get it.
The 7 Framework Elements That Transform Families
Most of us are trying to build a thriving home without understanding the essential elements that make it work, like constructing a house without a blueprint.
After years of counseling overwhelmed families, we’ve built the membership around these 7 essential elements that transform chaos into connection.
✓ FOUNDATION Be the secure base your kids need to launch from
✓ WIRING Understand your family's unique personalities
✓ THERMOSTAT Set the emotional temperature in your home
✓ MIRROR Challenge false narratives by telling yourself the truth
✓ WEATHER VANE Teach your family to navigate big emotions
✓ FAMILY FENCE Create boundaries that protect your home
✓ BLUEPRINT Build a family system that guides your home
When you have a clear framework, everything changes: you become your family's emotional thermostat instead of reacting to every crisis, you understand each member's unique wiring so you can love them in ways that actually work, and you create systems that guide your family through both ordinary days and challenging seasons.
The families that thrive aren't the ones with perfect kids - they're the ones who understand the blueprint.
What to Expect From The Family Room
Weekly Live Training Sessions
Every week, we dive deep into one aspect of the framework. These are practical, actionable training sessions where you learn specific skills you can use immediately. Every session is recorded and waiting in your member library.
Value: $197/month
Complete Framework Resource Library
Worksheets, guides, scripts, and tools for every framework element. Everything is designed for real life - not Pinterest perfection. Download what you need, when you need it.
Value: $147/month
Private Member Community
Connect with other moms who are on the same journey. Ask questions, share wins, get support, and actually feel less alone in this. This is the accountability and encouragement you've been missing.
Value: $97/month
Monthly Expert Guest Training
Special sessions with therapists, coaches, and specialists who go deeper on specific challenges - anxiety, trauma, special needs, difficult behaviors, and more.
Value: $97/month
On-Demand Training Archive
Instant access to our complete library of past trainings. Binge what you need, when you need it.
Value: $247
Meet Kim Anderson & Elevate Moms
Kim has sat across from hundreds of moms who said some version of this:
"I had no idea what to say. So I said the first thing that came to mind. And I watched my child's face shut down. I made it worse."
If you've ever felt that way, Kim wants you to know: it's not your fault.
That's the heart of why she founded Elevate Moms. She saw too many smart, loving moms beating themselves up for not knowing how to handle moments they were never taught to navigate. Moments that look nothing like the parenting struggles of previous generations.
As a licensed counselor, certified life coach, and mom herself, Kim works with families every day who are dealing with these exact challenges. And what she's learned is this: once you understand what's actually happening in your child's brain when they're excluded, everything shifts.
The advice that backfired? It makes sense now.
The moments you felt helpless? You'll know exactly what to do.
The framework you've been missing? She's going to give it to you.
The Family Room represents everything Elevate Moms stands for: practical support for the real struggles moms face, grounded in both professional expertise and genuine understanding of what it's like to be in the trenches.
Your Questions, Answered
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The trainings are broken into bite-sized tools and the Q&A LIVEs will be 30 minutes a week - shorter than one episode of your favorite show.
This is all designed to save you time, not take more of it. When you have clear frameworks, you stop spending hours researching, second-guessing, and managing the same problems over and over.
We want the time invested in training to save you hours of frustration every single week. This fits YOUR schedule, not the other way around.
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No problem at all. Every single training is recorded and uploaded to your member library. We know life is busssyyy because of work schedules, time zones, or just life with kids. You get the exact same value whether you attend live or watch later.
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This isn't a course you have to "finish." There's no falling behind. The Family Room is ongoing support - every week, there's new training designed for wherever you are in your journey. You can't fail at this because there's no finish line. It's continuous growth at your own pace.
Plus, the community accountability makes a huge difference. When you're surrounded by other moms doing the work, you're much more likely to stick with it.
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The Framework Elements work for families with children of any age - from toddlers to teenagers. The principles of attachment, boundaries, emotional regulation, and family systems apply across all developmental stages. We just adjust the application for your child's age.
During trainings, we often address different age groups specifically, and our resource library includes age-specific tools. Many members have kids spanning multiple ages and use the frameworks across the board.
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I get it. This is the #1 objection I hear from moms, and it breaks my heart every time.
Here's the truth: You cannot pour from an empty cup. Every dollar you invest in sports, activities, and opportunities for your kids depends on YOU showing up as a mom who has the capacity to support them. When you're running on empty, burned out, and barely holding it together, everyone suffers.
Think of it this way: Would you skip oil changes for your car to save money? Of course not - because eventually the whole engine breaks down and costs way more. You are your family's engine. This is your maintenance.
$47 a month is preventative care for your entire family system. It's cheaper than therapy (which you might need if you keep going without support). It's less than one family meal out. And it's the foundation that makes every other investment in your family actually work.
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The beauty of the framework approach is that it's adaptable to any family situation - blended families, single parents, special needs kids, high-conflict situations, whatever you're facing. The core principles remain the same, but the application is customized to your reality.
Plus, during live trainings, you can ask questions specific to your situation. And our member community includes moms facing every challenge imaginable - you'll find others navigating similar circumstances who can offer practical insights.
If after trying it, you truly feel it's not the right fit, you can cancel anytime. No long-term commitment required.
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Yes. Absolutely. This is a month-to-month membership. If you decide it's not for you, cancel anytime with no penalties, no questions asked, no hoops to jump through.
We're confident in the value we provide, so we don't need to trap anyone in contracts. Most members stay because they see real results, not because they're locked in.
Plus, the community accountability makes a huge difference. When you're surrounded by other moms doing the work, you're much more likely to stick with it.
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That's exactly what the member community is for. Post your questions anytime, and you'll get responses from both other experienced members and our team. Many members say the community is worth the membership price alone because they finally have a place to get real-time support from moms who understand.
During trainings, we often address different age groups specifically, and our resource library includes age-specific tools. Many members have kids spanning multiple ages and use the frameworks across the board.
Stop Feeling Helpless When Your Child is Hurting
That voice in your head telling you to invest in yourself? Listen to it.
That feeling that something needs to change? It's right.
That hope that it could actually be different? It can be.
But nothing changes if nothing changes.
Your move, mama.
We'll see you inside The Family Room.